The Secret To Never Being Single

* CAUTION: This article contains some seriously harsh but eye opening material.

I feel sorry for single women. I feel sorry for single women because society and modern feminist culture (lead by many popular women’s magazines) has engraved some fundamentally wrong beliefs into their brains.

Instead of addressing the real issue (men are incredibly shallow) women are led to believe that by doing certain things (acting funny, being witty, insulting guys etc) they will be able to attract ANY man.

While the above examples may explain what women should do in order to attract a man, they miss the most important thing: Men are incredibly shallowwhich basically means they cannot attract ANY man but only certain men, the ones that find them attractive.


In order for any woman to have a decent shot at the so called “great guy” they need to add 2 extra steps to their dating mindset.

1.       Do your best to become more psychically attractive.

2.       Drop your high standards.

3.       Assure yourself that point 1 & 2 is covered then follow “conventional dating advice”.

You see, most “dating advice” that is scattered across the internet and in very popular women’s magazines fails to include the first 2 points of this list. They basically start from step 3, leading women to believe that they can get any man regardless of their appearance.


This concept is fundamentally wrong. This may come as a shock to many women but it’s the darn truth. I’m sorry I have to be the one that bursts your bubble but it’s better to know than to remain ignorant.

What you need to understand is that men are incredibly shallow, regardless of what they say. As such, any possible problem that you’ve ever had whilst trying to seduce or be seduced by a man can be traced back to point 1 and 2 of this article.

To put it even more simply, any possible problem that you’ve ever had whilst trying to seduce or be seduced by a man existed because you were not attractive enough for said man.

It really doesn’t matter how “bad/unattractive” your personality is, if that man believes that you are incredibly hot, “way out of his league” he will do anything he can to get you to be his woman and even his wife.

Let’s look at a simple example:

If a man finds a certain Spanish woman to be incredibly attractive but said woman doesn’t speak a word of English but yet gives him a warm smile (reason to approach), I’ll bet you my house, that man will learn to speak basic Spanish in less than 1 week.

If a man sees a woman as being incredibly attractive, all the possible downsides that come with her personality or beliefs become non-existent. This is how shallow men really are.

Let’s look at a few more examples:

·         Woman says “I did everything Cosmo told me, why doesn’t this guy like me back?”

You fail to consider point 1 and 2 of this article… basically you’re not attractive enough for this man.

·         Woman says “I’ve got this handsome guy at work, I smile constantly, give him signs but why doesn’t he ask me out?”

You fail to consider point 1 and 2 of this article… basically you’re not attractive enough for this man.

·         Woman says “Men just use me for sex, why can’t I find a guy that wants’ a relationship?”

You fail to consider point 1 and 2 of this article… basically you’re not attractive enough for these men.

·         Woman says “I want a hot guy that looks like Brad Pit, why don’t any of the hot guys like me?”

You fail to consider point 1 and 2 of this article… basically you’re not attractive enough for these men.

Ok, so you probably get the point here. Now, let’s look at this whole “men are shallow” issue a little more closely.


Men Are Shallow

You probably knew this already but I’m going to go into a few details. Men grade women. Men have been grading women since grades came out into existence and will continue to do so as long as all women don’t look the same.

What does this mean? Well, most men grade women based on the general perception of all men, on a scale from 1 to 10. Meaning, if a man likes women with imperfections (small breasts, curvy etc) he will never be able to grade them a top grade (10) because that’s not the general perception of all men.

To give you an idea of how this general perception works we will use celebrities. I think most men would agree that Scarlet Johansson and Megan Fox both fit well between the 9-10 range and that Snooki is no more than an indulgent 3.


Knowing this you can now safely grade yourself. If you look better than Snooki but not as good as the first two then you’re probably 6-7. If you look better than Scarlet Johansson then you’ve got it made and I seriously don’t know why you’re reading this article.

So, how does this help you? Well, considering point 1 and 2, unless you are a perfect 10 you can never expect to land a 9-10 great guy.


Well, here’s where lowering your standards comes into play. If you’re an attractive 9, 9 looking guys won’t think much about you and will often strive to get the 10. Even if you land a 9 looking guy, it will be incredibly hard to get the respect and appreciation you deserve. Hot guys know they’re hot and love it.

Now, think about what would happen if you were to land a 5-6. For that guy, you will be a goddess. He would respect, cherish and do everything in his power to make you happy.


Now, let’s look at this from a different angle. If you’re a 5, why in the world would you expect to get a 9? This is exactly why these unrealistic standards affect both men and women today and is the sole reason why there are so many single people in this world. Again, blame it on the feminist culture and big time women’s magazines.

If you’re a straight 5 the first thing you need to do is to work on point 1 (doing your best to improve your appearance). With some decent make-up skills, before you go out you can get yourself looking like an 8. Instead of going for an 8-9 guy and have him use you for sex, go for a 5. That 5 will be the happiest man in the world because he has now landed a perfect 8 which he can love, cherish and respect.

In reality, you’ve both just found your perfect match and can live happily for the rest of your lives.

Bottom Line

The problem isn’t that there’s no “great guys” in this world, the problem is that many women have been lead to believe that men are NOT shallow and that they can get the most handsome guy even though he’s “way out of her league”.

The secret to getting a quality guy that will cherish, love and respect you for the rest of your life doesn’t lie in your ability to apply the most mundane “dating advice tips”, it lies in your ability to do your best to become more physically attractive whilst aiming for a guy that doesn’t look as great as you.

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