Some women find flirting natural while others, find it a frustrating experience. Flirting is not about throwing yourself at a man but more about the slight gestures that you do which make a man want you.
All men love a woman that can flirt back, it’s something that we find incredibly attractive. For us, flirting is an important part of the seduction process, we absolutely love to charm women, to impress them and that is what flirting is for us.
It’s much easier for a woman to flirt, sending out the right signals is all we need to see in order to pursue you further and try to woo you with our charms. You don’t even have to make the first move when it comes to flirting, just let a guy know that you’re warm and approachable and he will know that you’re open to some flirting. Once he starts, all you have to do is flirt back. It’s that simple!
Read the rest of this article and find out how to woo any guy by using these effortless ways to flirt.
1. Smile, Be Warm and Approachable
A girl that has a happy and positive attitude is very appealing to men. If she can give a nice smile and laugh at his jokes, it’s even better. Don’t be arrogant, rude or pass cocky comments when you’re with the guy you want to flirt with. We’ll do anything to stay away from such women, even if they are incredibly attractive.
2. Compliment Him and Thank Him
Just as you like it when a guy compliments you, we love it too. Compliments are the basic things that make a conversation flirtier. If you like something about the guy you’re talking to, don’t be afraid to tell him, he’ll love you for it and he will always say something in return.
Also, if he’s the one making all the compliments, being rather courteous or chivalrous, thank him with a warm smile. If you acknowledge our advances positively, we’ll try even harder to please you. Any way you look at this, it’s a win-win for you.
3. Gaze Deep Into His Eyes
If you really want to put him at ease, give him a long stare, deep into his eyes. This makes him feel understood by you as well as making him think that you are indeed into him. It’s a fantastic yet very easy way to flirt.
This is so strong that it even makes us feel awkward sometimes, if you add an extra happy smile our knees will melt and our voice will stutter. Play with this next time you’re having a conversation and witness its true power.
4. Have Feminine Expressions
Feminine, flirty expressions are probably what men love most about women. This is your opportunity to show your femininity and truly become a woman in the presence of a man. It’s easy to master this art, just spend a few minutes in front of the mirror every day and work on your expressions. Learn to use your eyes and your facial expressions to your advantage, and you won’t really need words to impress a guy and make him flirt with you.
“Learn to flutter your eyelids, work your smile and your little happy expressions and you’ll be a flirty pro in no time.”
If you’re wondering if this actually works, think about all the supermodels and great actresses that have made a career on their expressions – that should be enough to get your answer.
5. Use Your Hair
You probably don’t know this but the majority of your pheromones (chemicals that attract men) are released through your hair. Men love to smell and touch a woman’s hair because we find it infatuating.
This is why, the simple act of brushing one’s hair, is considered flirting and it drives men crazy. So, next time you’re in the middle of a conversation, you can run your hands through your hair to show off your confidence or tuck your hair behind your ears with your fingers to show off your sexy cuteness. It doesn’t really matter what and why you do it, as long as you play with your hair the guy will get more and more excited.
6. Tease Him
It’s easy to flirt with a guy by putting him on pedestal, making compliments etc. Sometimes, it gets to his head and he quickly starts to believe that you are his for the taken.
This is why, it’s always wise to tease him once in a while to let him know that you’re not actually that easy to get. This will make him work even harder and that’s another win for you. Just make sure you don’t tease him too much as he might get upset and leave.
Say for example, if his jokes aren’t funny, feel free to tell him. It’s important to make him feel nice but don’t forget to also put him down once in a while, just enough to give him more reasons to fight for you.
7. Act Girly but Don’t Overdo It
You don’t have to act like a school girl or anything like that. Most certainly you shouldn’t scream and speak in a high pitched, glass shattering voice as that’s more of a turn off than a turn on.
However, acting like a girly girl in the presence of a man, makes him feel more powerful, makes him take on the protector role. Try to be subtle and feminine in the way you dress, your voice and the way you act whilst letting him play his manly role in front of you.
8. Put Your Hands On Him
This is one of the best ways to make a guy desire you and flirt with you even more. Although this is a man’s job (to start touching during a conversation) if a woman does it first, we just can’t help but get a big lump in our throats. Also, another involuntary thing happens every time we are touched by a woman – we open up to her more and feel much more comfortable in her presence. Just try this out the next time you’re talking to a guy and see just how positive the response will be.
9. Be Genuinely Interested In His Existence
Most of the time, when a decent guy is having a conversation with you, he’s trying desperately hard to listen and understand whatever it is that you’re telling him. Most of the time, guys lead the conversation and ask women all sort of related questions.
If you want to connect with him at a different level, ask him some questions about himself and then based on what he’s telling you, ask even more questions and be genuinely interested in whatever it is that he’s telling you.
This does 2 things – 1 it helps you get to know the guy – 2 you’re connecting with him at a level most women never get to.
Now that you know how to flirt…don’t you think it’s time to go out and meet some new guys?