14 Things About Women That Turn Guys On

September 11, 2016 Alex Matlock 0

Men aren’t really sophisticated when it comes to getting turned on, often enough just looking at a great girl is enough to get us going. You see, unlike women, we respond incredibly well to visual stimuli and that’s what you, as a woman, need to take advantage of, if you want to get a guy turned on.

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For example, when you’re reading a romance novel where the protagonists are having sex, you will, most of the time (and correct me if I’m wrong), try to or actually feel the feelings the woman protagonist is feeling. If a man was to read a romance novel, he would instead, visually imagine the sexual act – this can be a very tiring experience and that’s just one of the reasons men prefer porn to romance novels.

Anyway, if he is in the early stages of the relationship, just looking at you (and imagining having sex with you) is more than enough to get him going. On the other hand, if you’ve been in a relationship for some time it will take a bit more effort to get him hot and ready.

This article is here to show you, in no particular order, the 14 major things about women that turn guys on, regardless of the relationship stage.

1.       Skin

As women are considered the beautiful sex, there’s really no point in dressing up but, because modern society has us wearing clothes, whenever we see that little extra bit of skin we get turned on. Flimsy skirts, visible thighs and all those other luxuries will always get a guy’s attention.

2.       Touching

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As men, we always make an effort to properly touch a woman, we view it in a way, as our responsibility but oh boy when a woman touches back, or even when she touches first…it’s overwhelming at times. Best places are around the neck, ear, arms and back of the head whilst kissing… touch a guy in any of these locations and you’ll surely get him going.

3.       Closeness

This works particularly well with guys that you’re not yet in a relationship with. Being close to a woman is incredibly arousing, this can happen on a bus, in the elevator, at the bar and basically everywhere else where 2 people are somewhat forced to be in close proximity. Why? Because it becomes incredibly evident how much of a woman you are (your hair, your smell…) – basically, we get to see you up close and many guys relish at the chance.

The 3 Main Things Men Want In A Relationship

February 25, 2016 Alex Matlock 0

 Today I’m going to answer one of the most popular questions I get on the emails here, what men want in a relationship. As I’ve said on countless occasions, men are simple creatures and thus, my answer today will be very simple. When I’ve mentioned this on the emails, many women were shocked by the simplicity of the answer…

As a woman you may not agree with these because this is NOT what YOU want in a relationship, but remember, you are a woman and thus have different desires and expectations. When it comes to MEN these are the MAIN things they look for when it comes to starting a relationship.

I agree that there may be men out there that have additional expectations when looking for a partner but those guys are in the low minority and that’s exactly why we won’t be discussing those other “desires” as they do not fit in with the GENERAL mindset of men and their motivations.

1.       SEX

I’m sure this doesn’t come as a big shock but it may be shocking to realize that it’s the MOST important thing a guy wants from a woman. No, this is not my PERSONAL opinion either; it really is the driving factor for all men. Quite frankly we can call this the reason why MOST men get up in the morning, in hopes that they’ll wake up the next day with someone in their bed.

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You might argue that food is more important to some men but if that were the case, and men had to choose between food and sex, starvation would probably be the number 1 reason why the male population is quickly dropping.

The basic gist of it is that, without constant sex most men are unable to function. If constant sex is missing from their lives, then they will do anything to make it happen. Don’t think of sex as kinky desire many men have, it all boils down to a WOMAN that is willing to get naked with a man on a regular basis. If you’re that woman and you’re sleeping with us regularly, then the man you’re sleeping with will CONSIDER (not immediately want) you for a relationship.

2.       Comfort

Comfort is another incredibly important thing to us men, and I can confidently say that comfort is the main reason why most men STAY in relationships.

How To Flirt – 9 Effortless Ways To Flirt With A Man

October 2, 2015 Alex Matlock 0

Some women find flirting natural while others, find it a frustrating experience. Flirting is not about throwing yourself at a man but more about the slight gestures that you do which make a man want you.

All men love a woman that can flirt back, it’s something that we find incredibly attractive. For us, flirting is an important part of the seduction process, we absolutely love to charm women, to impress them and that is what flirting is for us.

It’s much easier for a woman to flirt, sending out the right signals is all we need to see in order to pursue you further and try to woo you with our charms. You don’t even have to make the first move when it comes to flirting, just let a guy know that you’re warm and approachable and he will know that you’re open to some flirting. Once he starts, all you have to do is flirt back. It’s that simple!

Read the rest of this article and find out how to woo any guy by using these effortless ways to flirt.

1.       Smile, Be Warm and Approachable

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A girl that has a happy and positive attitude is very appealing to men. If she can give a nice smile and laugh at his jokes, it’s even better. Don’t be arrogant, rude or pass cocky comments when you’re with the guy you want to flirt with. We’ll do anything to stay away from such women, even if they are incredibly attractive.

2.       Compliment Him and Thank Him

Just as you like it when a guy compliments you, we love it too. Compliments are the basic things that make a conversation flirtier. If you like something about the guy you’re talking to, don’t be afraid to tell him, he’ll love you for it and he will always say something in return.

Also, if he’s the one making all the compliments, being rather courteous or chivalrous, thank him with a warm smile. If you acknowledge our advances positively, we’ll try even harder to please you. Any way you look at this, it’s a win-win for you.

3.       Gaze Deep Into His Eyes

If you really want to put him at ease, give him a long stare, deep into his eyes. This makes him feel understood by you as well as making him think that you are indeed into him. It’s a fantastic yet very easy way to flirt.