How To Flirt – 9 Effortless Ways To Flirt With A Man

October 2, 2015 Alex Matlock 0

Some women find flirting natural while others, find it a frustrating experience. Flirting is not about throwing yourself at a man but more about the slight gestures that you do which make a man want you.

All men love a woman that can flirt back, it’s something that we find incredibly attractive. For us, flirting is an important part of the seduction process, we absolutely love to charm women, to impress them and that is what flirting is for us.

It’s much easier for a woman to flirt, sending out the right signals is all we need to see in order to pursue you further and try to woo you with our charms. You don’t even have to make the first move when it comes to flirting, just let a guy know that you’re warm and approachable and he will know that you’re open to some flirting. Once he starts, all you have to do is flirt back. It’s that simple!

Read the rest of this article and find out how to woo any guy by using these effortless ways to flirt.

1.       Smile, Be Warm and Approachable


A girl that has a happy and positive attitude is very appealing to men. If she can give a nice smile and laugh at his jokes, it’s even better. Don’t be arrogant, rude or pass cocky comments when you’re with the guy you want to flirt with. We’ll do anything to stay away from such women, even if they are incredibly attractive.

2.       Compliment Him and Thank Him

Just as you like it when a guy compliments you, we love it too. Compliments are the basic things that make a conversation flirtier. If you like something about the guy you’re talking to, don’t be afraid to tell him, he’ll love you for it and he will always say something in return.

Also, if he’s the one making all the compliments, being rather courteous or chivalrous, thank him with a warm smile. If you acknowledge our advances positively, we’ll try even harder to please you. Any way you look at this, it’s a win-win for you.

3.       Gaze Deep Into His Eyes

If you really want to put him at ease, give him a long stare, deep into his eyes. This makes him feel understood by you as well as making him think that you are indeed into him. It’s a fantastic yet very easy way to flirt.

When He Says He’s Not Ready…and Other Guy Cliches

August 29, 2015 Alex Matlock 0

I was recently approached by Cosmopolitan magazine to help them with an article they were putting together. Since being featured in Cosmo is kind of a big deal I figured it’s worth sharing it with you guys.

The article is called: When He Says He’s Not Ready…and Other Guy Cliches

“You meet a guy, things between you are going well, you start to fall for him and then – bam! Ready to burst your happy, hopeful little bubble of ‘this could be it’ is a line – a line that could be the truth, but could also be a Big. Fat. Excuse.

So how do you work out if he really means what he says, or if it’s just a cliché he’s using as a ploy to be let off the hook? And more importantly, how do you react once you work it out? We’ve gone to the experts to find out, but beware: sometimes the truth isn’t for the fainthearted…”

Click here to read the full article!

The Things You Do That Make That Guy You Like, Lose Interest

June 18, 2015 Alex Matlock 0

The most fascinating thing about dating is how, what we want and expect to happen on a date, doesn’t always correspond to what REALLY happens on a date.

For a couple of seconds, I want you to think back and remember a guy you dated that you were immediately attracted to on the very first date.

Remember how that very first sight gave you butterflies? Remember how just thinking about him made you tingle? Remember how when you weren’t with him, all you could think about was being with him again?

Infatuation is a dangerous feeling. But how does this affect your love life?


Most infatuated women become a little obsessive. If you’re anything like most women then you’ll probably start checking your phone every 5 minutes to see if he called or texted. You become a little needy. You constantly tell your friends about him and share every single detail of your conversations with them.

You can’t properly communicate with him because whilst trying not to say the wrong thing, you often say nothing. Or even worse, you say something so pointless that even you can’t believe you actually said that.

You start feeling stressed and begin to act nervous. You don’t want to mess anything up because you like him so much so you’re no longer as easy going, relaxed or even charming when you’re with him.


He gets you overly excited and you show it. You compliment him all the time and he starts to see it. You even tell him that you see/want a future here.

You start to become weak because you’re so impressed with him and so concerned about what he thinks that you put him high on a pedestal, a rightful place in your mind.

And here’s your biggest mistake.

The moment you put anyone on a pedestal, they start looking down on you. If up until that point he thought you were equal, the moment he’s high and mighty he will realize that “he’s above you”.

“Sadly, this is one of the biggest drawbacks of being infatuated by a man.”

Neediness, nervousness, over excitement and weakness – these words define a woman that is infatuated by a new man in her life.

Sit back and think about them for a second. Do you find them attractive?

Then it shouldn’t be a big surprise when that man you like so much, upon seeing a needy, nervous and weak woman, stops calling you. With all honesty, what would you expect him to do? You come out way to serious about him, way too early and that obviously scares him away.

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