7 Essential Things That Men Find Attractive About A Woman

June 6, 2016 Alex Matlock 0

We as men, love women, it’s in our blood. There are a lot of things that we find appealing in women but, it’s only natural that there are some things about women that we find even more attractive. Because men are simple creatures, certain things appeal to all of us, similar to how certain things about us men, appeal to you.

For example, no women on this earth will say that chivalry isn’t attractive. So, if you want to have that extra edge in front of other ladies, pay close attention to this article. These are simple things and it’s really easy to apply them in your everyday life. By knowing what a man finds attractive in a woman it will become easy for you to attract any man you like. Just make sure you don’t let the new attention go into your head.

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You see, men are very visual and simple creatures, for us, attraction and infatuation happens very quickly, we don’t need to know a lot about you in order to become attracted. Basically, it’s all down to your first impression.  It’s also true that in time, this changes and our appreciation for you will be at a much deeper level but for starters here are the things that catch our eyes:

1.       A cheerful woman

Nothing turns a man off more than a depressed and mean attitude. If you want to get that extra attention make sure you look cheerful because a flirty giggle and a cheerful attitude can quickly melt any man’s heart.

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I agree that it’s not always easy to have such an attitude but if you can think about the happier side of life, all the time, this will happen naturally. It’s the same for you isn’t it? Would you date a guy that hates his life and is genuinely miserable? Probably not, so think about this next time you go out.

2.       A well dressed, good looking woman

Yes, we men are attracted by looks, you knew it, I said it and it’s the truth. But do not worry because this doesn’t mean you have to undergo plastic surgery…

Dressing well and looking good are things that you can immediately change. I’m not going to give any lessons on fashion as I’m probably not the right person to do so however, caring about what you put on and the way you apply some make-up can be detrimental when it comes to attracting men.

The 3 Main Things Men Want In A Relationship

February 25, 2016 Alex Matlock 0

 Today I’m going to answer one of the most popular questions I get on the emails here, what men want in a relationship. As I’ve said on countless occasions, men are simple creatures and thus, my answer today will be very simple. When I’ve mentioned this on the emails, many women were shocked by the simplicity of the answer…

As a woman you may not agree with these because this is NOT what YOU want in a relationship, but remember, you are a woman and thus have different desires and expectations. When it comes to MEN these are the MAIN things they look for when it comes to starting a relationship.

I agree that there may be men out there that have additional expectations when looking for a partner but those guys are in the low minority and that’s exactly why we won’t be discussing those other “desires” as they do not fit in with the GENERAL mindset of men and their motivations.

1.       SEX

I’m sure this doesn’t come as a big shock but it may be shocking to realize that it’s the MOST important thing a guy wants from a woman. No, this is not my PERSONAL opinion either; it really is the driving factor for all men. Quite frankly we can call this the reason why MOST men get up in the morning, in hopes that they’ll wake up the next day with someone in their bed.

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You might argue that food is more important to some men but if that were the case, and men had to choose between food and sex, starvation would probably be the number 1 reason why the male population is quickly dropping.

The basic gist of it is that, without constant sex most men are unable to function. If constant sex is missing from their lives, then they will do anything to make it happen. Don’t think of sex as kinky desire many men have, it all boils down to a WOMAN that is willing to get naked with a man on a regular basis. If you’re that woman and you’re sleeping with us regularly, then the man you’re sleeping with will CONSIDER (not immediately want) you for a relationship.

2.       Comfort

Comfort is another incredibly important thing to us men, and I can confidently say that comfort is the main reason why most men STAY in relationships.

The Secret To Never Being Single

November 12, 2015 Alex Matlock 0

* CAUTION: This article contains some seriously harsh but eye opening material.

I feel sorry for single women. I feel sorry for single women because society and modern feminist culture (lead by many popular women’s magazines) has engraved some fundamentally wrong beliefs into their brains.

Instead of addressing the real issue (men are incredibly shallow) women are led to believe that by doing certain things (acting funny, being witty, insulting guys etc) they will be able to attract ANY man.

While the above examples may explain what women should do in order to attract a man, they miss the most important thing: Men are incredibly shallowwhich basically means they cannot attract ANY man but only certain men, the ones that find them attractive.

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In order for any woman to have a decent shot at the so called “great guy” they need to add 2 extra steps to their dating mindset.

1.       Do your best to become more psychically attractive.

2.       Drop your high standards.

3.       Assure yourself that point 1 & 2 is covered then follow “conventional dating advice”.

You see, most “dating advice” that is scattered across the internet and in very popular women’s magazines fails to include the first 2 points of this list. They basically start from step 3, leading women to believe that they can get any man regardless of their appearance.

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This concept is fundamentally wrong. This may come as a shock to many women but it’s the darn truth. I’m sorry I have to be the one that bursts your bubble but it’s better to know than to remain ignorant.

What you need to understand is that men are incredibly shallow, regardless of what they say. As such, any possible problem that you’ve ever had whilst trying to seduce or be seduced by a man can be traced back to point 1 and 2 of this article.

To put it even more simply, any possible problem that you’ve ever had whilst trying to seduce or be seduced by a man existed because you were not attractive enough for said man.

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