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14 Things About Women That Turn Guys On

September 11, 2016 Alex Matlock 0

Men aren’t really sophisticated when it comes to getting turned on, often enough just looking at a great girl is enough to get us going. You see, unlike women, we respond incredibly well to visual stimuli and that’s what you, as a woman, need to take advantage of, if you want to get a guy turned on.

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For example, when you’re reading a romance novel where the protagonists are having sex, you will, most of the time (and correct me if I’m wrong), try to or actually feel the feelings the woman protagonist is feeling. If a man was to read a romance novel, he would instead, visually imagine the sexual act – this can be a very tiring experience and that’s just one of the reasons men prefer porn to romance novels.

Anyway, if he is in the early stages of the relationship, just looking at you (and imagining having sex with you) is more than enough to get him going. On the other hand, if you’ve been in a relationship for some time it will take a bit more effort to get him hot and ready.

This article is here to show you, in no particular order, the 14 major things about women that turn guys on, regardless of the relationship stage.

1.       Skin

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As women are considered the beautiful sex, there’s really no point in dressing up but, because modern society has us wearing clothes, whenever we see that little extra bit of skin we get turned on. Flimsy skirts, visible thighs and all those other luxuries will always get a guy’s attention.

2.       Touching

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As men, we always make an effort to properly touch a woman, we view it in a way, as our responsibility but oh boy when a woman touches back, or even when she touches first…it’s overwhelming at times. Best places are around the neck, ear, arms and back of the head whilst kissing… touch a guy in any of these locations and you’ll surely get him going.

3.       Closeness

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This works particularly well with guys that you’re not yet in a relationship with. Being close to a woman is incredibly arousing, this can happen on a bus, in the elevator, at the bar and basically everywhere else where 2 people are somewhat forced to be in close proximity. Why? Because it becomes incredibly evident how much of a woman you are (your hair, your smell…) – basically, we get to see you up close and many guys relish at the chance.

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7 Essential Things That Men Find Attractive About A Woman

June 6, 2016 Alex Matlock 0

We as men, love women, it’s in our blood. There are a lot of things that we find appealing in women but, it’s only natural that there are some things about women that we find even more attractive. Because men are simple creatures, certain things appeal to all of us, similar to how certain things about us men, appeal to you.

For example, no women on this earth will say that chivalry isn’t attractive. So, if you want to have that extra edge in front of other ladies, pay close attention to this article. These are simple things and it’s really easy to apply them in your everyday life. By knowing what a man finds attractive in a woman it will become easy for you to attract any man you like. Just make sure you don’t let the new attention go into your head.

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You see, men are very visual and simple creatures, for us, attraction and infatuation happens very quickly, we don’t need to know a lot about you in order to become attracted. Basically, it’s all down to your first impression.  It’s also true that in time, this changes and our appreciation for you will be at a much deeper level but for starters here are the things that catch our eyes:

1.       A cheerful woman

Nothing turns a man off more than a depressed and mean attitude. If you want to get that extra attention make sure you look cheerful because a flirty giggle and a cheerful attitude can quickly melt any man’s heart.

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I agree that it’s not always easy to have such an attitude but if you can think about the happier side of life, all the time, this will happen naturally. It’s the same for you isn’t it? Would you date a guy that hates his life and is genuinely miserable? Probably not, so think about this next time you go out.

2.       A well dressed, good looking woman

Yes, we men are attracted by looks, you knew it, I said it and it’s the truth. But do not worry because this doesn’t mean you have to undergo plastic surgery

Dressing well and looking good are things that you can immediately change. I’m not going to give any lessons on fashion as I’m probably not the right person to do so however, caring about what you put on and the way you apply some make-up can be detrimental when it comes to attracting men.

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The 3 Main Things Men Want In A Relationship

February 25, 2016 Alex Matlock 0

 Today I’m going to answer one of the most popular questions I get on the emails here, what men want in a relationship. As I’ve said on countless occasions, men are simple creatures and thus, my answer today will be very simple. When I’ve mentioned this on the emails, many women were shocked by the simplicity of the answer…

As a woman you may not agree with these because this is NOT what YOU want in a relationship, but remember, you are a woman and thus have different desires and expectations. When it comes to MEN these are the MAIN things they look for when it comes to starting a relationship.

I agree that there may be men out there that have additional expectations when looking for a partner but those guys are in the low minority and that’s exactly why we won’t be discussing those other “desires” as they do not fit in with the GENERAL mindset of men and their motivations.

1.       SEX

I’m sure this doesn’t come as a big shock but it may be shocking to realize that it’s the MOST important thing a guy wants from a woman. No, this is not my PERSONAL opinion either; it really is the driving factor for all men. Quite frankly we can call this the reason why MOST men get up in the morning, in hopes that they’ll wake up the next day with someone in their bed.

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You might argue that food is more important to some men but if that were the case, and men had to choose between food and sex, starvation would probably be the number 1 reason why the male population is quickly dropping.

The basic gist of it is that, without constant sex most men are unable to function. If constant sex is missing from their lives, then they will do anything to make it happen. Don’t think of sex as kinky desire many men have, it all boils down to a WOMAN that is willing to get naked with a man on a regular basis. If you’re that woman and you’re sleeping with us regularly, then the man you’re sleeping with will CONSIDER (not immediately want) you for a relationship.

2.       Comfort

Comfort is another incredibly important thing to us men, and I can confidently say that comfort is the main reason why most men STAY in relationships.

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